http://ping.fm/wB4Q0 It is probably so hurtful to you that your ex doesn't desire anything to do with you fair immediately. You have to remember though, that you have just broken up, and you are both stressed outside after the trauma of the relationship failing, and to get together at this stage will only constitute yet more problems for both of you. Taking a small age outside after the break up will eventually constitute your ex miss you so terribly, that he/she will contact you to talk about getting back together again.