http://ping.fm/P3wrc Many of us try to avoid personal responsibilities for the problems that we face in our lives. And someone might be really at fault for some of your problems and difficulties. However as an adult, you are ultimately accountable for whatever is going on in your lifetime. Blaming others for your problems is an escapist's path of facing the situation. It is also a redundant attitude as it is not going to contribute in solving the difficulty in any path.