http://ping.fm/pTklm This path of thinking will keep you, and other human beings, from being in relationships neither of you desire to be in. This will keep you from wasting your age, and will keep you from being with human beings - that perhaps were your childhood friends - just for them not to be alone. I will give examples of why it is a terrible thought, for both of you, that you spend age with this person - and what to do instead.