http://ping.fm/Ci5Xa 1. No begging to get back together - When you beg or plead you come off as needy and insecure, you have to instead come off as confident and independent... I know it seem very dense at first, however the best body you can do if you have just recently gone through a break up is to simply assent with it... This will place you and your ex both on the same level and both on the same side so that there is no more demand to argue over anything.